From the Mouths of Our Youth…What Humility Means To Ellis Prigge

Thank you Ellis for agreeing to participate in this interview. My goal is to gain a better understanding of what humility means so that I can be more humble and mentor others to be humble as well. I spend 80% of my day everyday developing youth. Your answers have really helped me.

Ellis Prigge raised over $100 at his school to donate to L.E.A.D.

C.J.: What does humility mean to you?
E.P.: Humility to me means someone who admits their mistakes and is not full of themselves.

C.J.: What is the opposite of humility?E.P.: The opposite of humility is someone that brags about themselves all the time.

C.J.: Who is the most humble person that you know? What makes them humble?E.P.: The most humble person I know is my mom because she always doing nice things for me and barely for herself.

C.J.: Why is it important to be humble?
E.P.: It is important to me to be humble (not everyone thinks it is important though) because it gives me confidence and confidence makes me better. I want people to be surprised when I do something great.

C.J.: Complete this sentence. If everyone in the world was humble, the world would be…
E.P.: Less showy, not trying to act like people they are not.

C.J.: How do you feel when people aren’t acting with humility around you?
E.P.: It makes me feel frustrated.

C.J.: Describe a situation that required you to be humble?
E.P.: When I was playing baseball in the summer and I hit a walk off it was hard not to brag.

C.J.: Describe a situation that requires you to be humble and you weren’t?
E.P.: I wasn’t humble when I had hit an inside the park home run and I was bragging and was full of myself.

C.J.: What percentage of people in the world are humble?
E.P.: I would say about 45%.

C.J.: What can schools do to help students be more humble?
E.P.: Schools can help by counseling, and teaching their is a lot more to life than just sports.

C.J.: What can parents do to help their children be more humble?
E.P.: Parents could help by maybe giving more discipline. Not focusing so much on winning, focus more about playing the game the right way. Act like you have been there before.

C.J.: Who’s the most humble MLB athlete?
E.P.: The most humble MLB player is Jason Heyward. But could a player be great and also be humble? Can entertainers be humble and still be successful?

Being humble isn’t easy yet I’m trying

Humility is a spiritual and mental muscle that must be exercised for strength. My humility muscles are extremely weak. I lose so many opportunities to exercise humility in the moment of interaction everyday. I often apologize for my mistakes later because I had an opportunity to realize that I was wrong. Humility is also about being willing to be wrong even when you are right for the sake of the other person? I would like to hear your feedback.


The L.E.A.D. Ambassadors along with Major General Ronald Johnson, Taz Anderson and C.J. Stewart
“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.” ~Rick Warren

I was having a conversation with my wife trying to come up with a clear definition of humility. One that would allow me to exercise humility because I clearly know what it means and also have the awareness to do it when it is necessary.

I like Rick Warren’s quote above because my problem with being humble at times is the thought that I have to “lessen” myself. If any perfect people are reading this, they won’t understand how “lessening” yourself can be difficult. Rick Warren is teaching that instead of “lessening” yourself, think less of yourself. That’s not easy to do either but I am willing to do that to make someone else feel good. I want others to feel good around me. That brings me joy.

“Life is a long lesson in humility.” James M. Barrie

We also discussed a couple stages of development that must occur before you can achieve the fullness of humility.

Exposure to life experiences can harden and soften us as people. If you were raised by people that didn’t own up to their mistakes, it makes it difficult for to be humble.

Purpose in life provides much needed accountability and leads to humility. I’m more willing to think less of myself now that I know my purpose in life. My purpose in life is to glorify God through the empowerment of others.  I’m fortunate to serve the world with excellence through L.E.A.D., Inc. and Diamond Directors.

Humility is the result of good and bad life experiences and realizing your life purpose.

Your thoughts?

L.E.A.D. Awarded $7,500 Grant From The Atlanta Braves Foundation

September 27th – L.E.A.D. was awarded a $7,500 grant from the Atlanta Braves Foundation for their 2013 grant cycle. Kelli Stewart (Executive Director, L.E.A.D.) represented L.E.A.D. during a special pre-game, on-field ceremony for grant recipients on September 24th. The grant funds will be used to support L.E.A.D.’s year round life-skills and baseball development programming for Atlanta Public School middle and high school students.

“Empowering inner-city youth to achieve beyond their circumstances is very rewarding yet challenging work. It takes the support of strategic relationships to achieve successful outcomes. We are grateful to have the continued support of the Atlanta Braves Foundation as we use our beloved sport of baseball to connect deserving young men to colleges and careers.” – Kelli Stewart | Executive Director, L.E.A.D. Inc. 

 

L.E.A.D. Speaks for Itself

I’ve been retired from professional baseball (Houston Astros) for 4 months now and I’ve been approached with a lot of different opportunities. It’s a blessing to have options when you’re talking about life and your career. I took my time deciding which way to go and making sure I made the right decision for my future.


Neiko Johnson preparing for a game with Houston Astros Minor League affiliate
After meeting with C.J. Stewart over the course of the past few months I’ve come to realize that my decision to join him and the L.E.A.D. organization was the best decision by far. This experience benefits me in a number of ways. I am learning how to understand myself, how to help others become successful, how to become a great mentor, coach and it helps me create the vision of my future. 


Without this opportunity, I honestly feel I wouldn’t be heading in the right direction as fast as I wanted to. L.E.A.D. helps me just as I am helping them. I realize we as mentors/coaches have an interdependent relationship with the LEADers (L.E.A.D. student/athletes) which is beneficial for both sides. The young men involved in L.E.A.D. benefit greatly and I am honored to be able to help them succeed.

L.E.A.D. stands for (Launch, Expose, Advise, Direct) which speaks directly to how the organization is structured. I love how the LEADers have to recite the mission statement, a bible memory verse, core values, and a precept daily. I feel that holds them accountable for the information that they are receiving and it helps them realize how great of an opportunity they have.

Being able to be involved in this is something I will remember forever. I will always be apart of this great organization and help out as long as I can. 

My goals can be accomplished from numerous places but this experience is different and extraordinary. Being able to surround myself with excellent people is the most important aspect. That alone was the biggest factor in my decision and so far it has paid off tremendously. The future is very bright within this organization and I show gratitude for this opportunity. ~Neiko Johnson

Neiko Johnson was a graduate of the University of Kentucky and played baseball for four years
Follow Neiko Johnson on Twitter @ThisIsNJJ.

The James M. Cox Foundation Supports L.E.A.D.

Atlanta, GA, September 2013 – The James M. Cox Foundation awarded L.E.A.D. with a $15,000 grant to support the organization’s Middle School Character Development League Program. This program serves over 300 student-athletes across eight Atlanta Public Middle Schools:

  • B.E.S.T. Academy, 
  • Brown/Kennedy, 
  • Harper-Archer, 
  • King, 
  • Long, 
  • Price, 
  • Sylvan Hills and 
  • Young Middle Schools. 

L.E.A.D. guides its student-athletes on a year round Pathway To Empowerment that emphasizes excellence in academics, civic responsibility, commerce and athletics.