How the BCS and NFL playoffs are making me a better baseball coach

I’m watching this Packers/49’ers playoff game still upset about the Falcons dismal season. I saw a Facebook post last year that said that F.A.L.C.O.N.S. was an acronym that stands for Fans Always Left Counting On Next Season. I had to regretfully laugh at that one.

We are almost at the end of some amazing BCS games that showcased some of the top college football players in the nation. My wife Kelli and I have enjoyed all the intense games together. I’m predicting that the Seminoles will win the National Championship this year. Who you got?

All of the NFL playoff games have been thrillers as well. I’m hoping that Drew Brees and the Saints lose their swag. Yes I’m a hater!

I’m also a baseball guy that is learning how to coach from the college football and NFL coaches. I’m specifically paying attention to their calm and collective demeanor. These games have high implications and situations that I deem stressful but it doesn’t seem to phase these guys one bit.

I’ve been successfully developing baseball players through my for profit Diamond Directors for 15 years but I personally need to develop more patience as a coach. Crunch time in games cause me to stress which causes my players to stress.


As I make this self assessment, I am reminded that when you properly prepare for success there should be no stress. You can only control what you can control. Even losing the big games in the NFL causes organizations to go back to the drawing board to make the necessary adjustments. The Saints haven’t always played this good.

I have the Seahawks going all the way. Great players but even better coach in Pete Carroll.

Who’s head?

Getting ahead gets in your head.
Hard to move forward when you can’t measure the stride.

I’m alive but am I getting ahead.
Who owns the compass?

The body can move without the head.
If it moves forward, is it getting ahead without The Head?

My state of confusion is in my head.
One day I feel that I’m moving ahead but is it enough movement to celebrate?


Your words concentrate me and remind me that it’s not too late.
I go backwards when I try to use my head instead of You being The Head.

But going backwards ain’t really bad.
On your back you are still and can see others get ahead.
I’m a visual learner.
Your friends will come back for you.

I want to get ahead to bring others.
If I use my head we will all suffer.

Life is learning and moving is getting ahead when You are The Head.


On set for ESPN E:60 interview

The Ambassadors report before Christmas

It has been a while since I have blogged. The Ambassadors have done so much and I’m glad to be along the ride with them.

We’ve been practicing like crazy in the cages at D-BAT Atlanta this month. Super excited to have our Ambassador alums join us during their winter break from college. Coach Neiko Johnson and Coach Kevin Young continue to do an amazing job leading our Ambassadors to lead themselves. Believe it or not, the Ambassadors run their own practices which includes hitting drills as well as journaling and video blogging. They just also started reading Sean Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens.

On Friday, December 6th, Kelli and I loaded up the SUV and took our two daughters along with three Ambassadors to Savannah to see our 2nd L.E.A.D. Ambassador Jason Wynn graduate from college. Jason graduated from Savannah State University with a degree in Homeland Security. He is now employed by Ashbritt. Our Ambassadors were able to see the ocean for the first time while we were there as well. So many great things to see in our state.



On Friday, December 13th, we loaded up three vans and traveled over an hour to Roberta, GA for an Ambassador retreat at Camp Grace. The weekend was full of effective team building exercises that will reap benefits for Atlanta in due time.


We have had a blessed year and pray the same for you and your family. Merry Christmas!

Alumni Spotlight: Josepy McCrary, III – ’08 Alum

Alma Mater: Savannah State University

Major: Accounting

Scholarship: Academic & Athletic

Accomplishments: Scholar student-athlete, graduated Magna Cum Laude in 4 years, L.E.A.D.’s 1st Ambassador College Graduate

In Joseph’s Words: This program has opened a lot of doors for me, not only with baseball, but also with my career aspirations to become an Accountant. Seeing the Stewarts and their team be dedicated to serving others on a daily basis, has made me realize just how importance service is. Because of their concern for me, I have the privilege of working each day around two of the things I love most – accounting and sports

Employer: MizunoUSA

My 6-Pack of Thanksgiving

The day after Thanksgiving, I slept in late and woke up by the grace of God next to an awesome wife and without children screaming and jumping in our bed.

There are six things that I am most thankful for.

1. Dynamic Church Family

I am a proud member of Elizabeth Baptist Church in Atlanta led by Dr. Craig L. Oliver. We are spiritually fed throughout the week with multiple services. It is a community of disciples that are intentional about serving one another. May God continue to bless us as well as all churches open in the name of Jesus.

2. Amazing Wife and Daughters

I adore my wife and daughters. They are my world. My purpose in life is to protect and provide for them. I can only do this by submitting my life to Christ. I’m not perfect but I’m striving for excellence everyday as a husband and father. My girls are worth my daily sacrifices.

3. Healthy Family

I can say with excitement that all of my family members to my knowledge are healthy. At least they were looking good yesterday! That is a huge blessing to have your health to serve others. We don’t know what tomorrow will bring but as for today, we have our health, strength and sound mind and may God receive the glory for that.



4. Awesome Friends

I have always been fortunate to have great friends. Ones that exist to help and not hurt. I don’t spend as much time with my friends as I would like but they are always there when I need them.

5. Thriving Businesses

Baseball has always been my love and passion and through my for profit Diamond Directors and non-profit L.E.A.D., I use the sport of baseball to empower others. I have some amazing partners and mentors that help me achieve excellence daily. We are going to raise the bar in 2014 so be ready.

6. The Falcons Will Receive A High Draft Pick In 2014

Shaking my head about my Falcons. We are having a rough year but we are getting a top pick in the draft. It’s time to RISE UP and win the Super Bowl and we will in 2014!