Your game plan for J. U. N. E.

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It’s June, or as I will call it here, J.U.N.E., i.e., Just Unplug Negative Energy. To unplug is to pull out and disconnect. There are a lot of teams—everything from youth baseball teams to Fortune 500 companies—that look great from an outsider’s perspective because they win games.

But while they may be winning the game, their people are losing the war. The war at stake is for peace of mind. Too often, negative energy wins out.

At a young age, I understood that happiness was connected to making lots of money and being famous. That’s why I wanted to be a Major League Baseball player.

I’ve been retired as a professional baseball player for more than 25 years and now have peace of mind because I am living my life on purpose.

There are four questions I had to answer in order to live on purpose:

  1. What do you worry about?
  2. What do you dream about?
  3. What do you cry about?
  4. What brings you unconditional joy?

What are your answers to those questions?

My answer led me to my life mission to be significant by serving millions and bringing them into a relationship with Christ, starting with my wife, Kelli, and our daughters, Mackenzi and Mackenna.

Baseball brings me joy. Does it bring you joy?

June is a month of baseball when the skill set of players is constantly being tested because teams from all over the world are able to travel for tournament play. A lot of the negative energy that players feel comes from the unrealistic expectations they put on themselves, which is not matched by the work ethic, talent and experience required to be successful.

When they lack these things, their default often becomes:

  • Maybe if I complain, I can get more playing time.
  • Maybe if I blame my coach for me not getting enough swings at practice, I can justify why I’m not getting enough playing time.
  • Maybe if I shame the kid that is playing ahead of me, I can feel better about not getting enough playing time.

Unplugging from negative energy makes it easy for your teammates, coaches and parents to support you. It also becomes easier for you to learn, perform and experience joy.

As Malcolm X once said,“There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time.”

For more information, visit L.E.A.D. Center for Youth today. Also, check out our Digital Magazine.

C.J. Stewart has built a reputation as one of the leading professional hitting instructors in the country. He is a former professional baseball player in the Chicago Cubs organization and has also served as an associate scout for the Cincinnati Reds. As founder and CEO of Diamond Directors Player Development, C.J. has more than 22 years of player development experience and has built an impressive list of clients, including some of the top young prospects in baseball today. If your desire is to change your game for the better, C.J. Stewart has a proven system of development and a track record of success that can work for you.

Finding the people—and means—to do great things

People before places. Advocacy and coaching. Sponsorship after mentorship.

Players lose out on opportunities because they are not aware or they don’t take action on these three things. These three areas are crucial parts of achieving success on and off the field, and it also leads to significance.

People before places

Young baseball players and their parents oftentimes put too much emphasis on the team that they can play for and the places that they will play rather than realizing the importance of the right person advocating for you.

Here’s a recent conversation that I had with a young man:

Player: Hey Coach Stewart, it is XXX. I hope you have been well. High school ball is over and we made the Elite 8 in the playoffs. I also received first team All-Region honors as a DH. Because of my high school season, I was invited to the “GA Dugout Club Underclassmen Top 100.”

Do you have any advice?

Me: Hey XXX. Congrats, that’s huge. What are the top three colleges on your list of schools you want to attend as a student-athlete?

Player: My schools in no order are: Cal Berkeley, Georgia Tech and Stanford.

Me: You should ask the coaches on the GA Dugout Club if they believe you are good enough to compete at any or all of these schools, and if yes, will they contact these schools for you. 

Advocacy and coaching

What’s the next best thing to have after you get a good coach? Advocacy. This is an activity by an individual or group that aims to influence decisions within systems and institutions.

Coaching is very important because this is where players are taught and developed by their coaches to perform.

Well, middle school players need advocacy so a high school baseball coach knows more about them than what is being showcased at the tryout. This same thing applies to high school players who want to make the jump to college baseball to the pros.

Advocacy after coaching is like swallowing after chewing.

Sponsorship after mentorship

Mentoring has become such an overused terminology that it can be hard for young people to value it. Mentoring is very much like coaching, and sponsorship is very much like advocacy.

Oftentimes, coaching is done for the physical baseball stuff, while mentoring is done for the mental side. If you are going to mentor someone, but feel like opening up for them, that’s as big a waste of time as buying an umbrella and using it as a cane while walking in the rain.

You can achieve a lot of success if you put people before places, advocacy and coaching, and sponsorship after mentorship.

Significance is using your success to serve others.

Keep good coaches and mentors on your roster.

Just remember that advocates and sponsors are significant people and great people lead you to great places.

For more information, visit L.E.A.D. Center for Youth today. Also, check out our Digital Magazine.

C.J. Stewart has built a reputation as one of the leading professional hitting instructors in the country. He is a former professional baseball player in the Chicago Cubs organization and has also served as an associate scout for the Cincinnati Reds. As founder and CEO of Diamond Directors Player Development, C.J. has more than 22 years of player development experience and has built an impressive list of clients, including some of the top young prospects in baseball today. If your desire is to change your game for the better, C.J. Stewart has a proven system of development and a track record of success that can work for you.

Why good coaching matters more than ever

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I love summertime baseball because it is when the best players ages 5-18 come together to compete in various tournaments and showcase tournaments across the country.

I was at the 7U baseball tournament of my godson, Tucker, recently. You could feel the energy in the stands. The kids were having fun, and there was a focus on winning the game from both teams, which included the parents, players and coaches.

This is important for the future of our game. If we don’t teach our kids how to compete to improve and compete to win, they may go to other sporting activities like the World Chase TagAmerican Cornhole League, and Pillow Fight Championships to learn.

While I am glad these sports are thriving and increasing in participation numbers and fan support, I don’t want to lose baseball players to them because we are not doing a good job of coaching.

Before the word coach was used in sports, it was strictly used as a means of transportation. There was a horse, a coachman to stir the reins used to direct the horse and the coach, who sat where the passenger rested until they reached their destination.

Good baseball coaching is going to have an intentional phased approach for development because luck, chance, love, hope and prayer is not enough.

As May heads into June, my players remain committed and disciplined to put a period on another productive year of development. Then it is time to start over again in August, where we will try new things to determine what works and what doesn’t.

Why it’s time to start ‘Breaking Barriers’

The month of May is making me feel good and there is no maybe about why it is happening. I owe it to myself to live a life of joy and purpose and so do you.

May be making me feel like it is time to bloom.

I am blessed to serve as the Chief Visionary Officer and the Head of Baseball Development for LEAD Center For Youth. At LEAD, we have a phased approach to development and May is the start of the Application Phase.

I created this approach so that everybody can be regulated emotionally from the LEAD staff, our Board of Directors, the parents we get to partner with and their children that we get to serve. This phased approach is how I govern my life. It works for me and has been working for LEAD since we were established in 2007.

May be making me feel loyal.

Loyalty is the core value for the month of May for us.

Core Values
  • August, February – Excellence
  • September, March – Humility
  • October, April – Integrity
  • November, May – Loyalty
  • December, June – Stewardship
  • January, July – Teamwork

To us, loyalty means doing the right thing, even when it is not popular to do it.

One of the signature things we do during the May-July Application Phase is our annual “Breaking Barriers Classic.” “Baseball has the power to overcome differences. We have to do all we can to make the world better than how we found it.”

The Classic includes our LEAD Ambassadors who are all African-American and an all white opponent. Prior to the start of the game, each team must select a captain and use prejudice, stereotypes and bias to make selections in order for the two new teams to be equally combined. The teams play seven innings of self-officiated baseball giving each of them to bond and expand their perspectives.

Maybe making me feel blessed that God has chosen me to lead in Atlanta using baseball as a vehicle to develop Major League Citizens.

For more information, visit L.E.A.D. Center for Youth today. Also, check out our Digital Magazine.

C.J. Stewart has built a reputation as one of the leading professional hitting instructors in the country. He is a former professional baseball player in the Chicago Cubs organization and has also served as an associate scout for the Cincinnati Reds. As founder and CEO of Diamond Directors Player Development, C.J. has more than 22 years of player development experience and has built an impressive list of clients, including some of the top young prospects in baseball today. If your desire is to change your game for the better, C.J. Stewart has a proven system of development and a track record of success that can work for you.

Fighting the good fight

Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

Being an African-American man in America presents challenges to me every day and being an African-American baseball coach definitely requires strong mental health.

Baseball was invented in September 1845 by a group of New York City men who founded the New York Knickerbocker Baseball Club. The sport soon became an essential part of the American identity. While other sports were enjoyed by many, the sport of baseball aspired to become a sport that unified all people.

The number of African-Americans playing Little League and Major League baseball is on a steady decline. I believe this is a social justice Issue. I also believe that baseball is a microcosm of America.

I fell in love with the game in summer 1984 when the Chicago Cubs were beating everybody and went on to win the National League East (they ended losing to the Padres in the National League Championship Series). There were several African-American players on that team. Gary “Sarge” Matthews was my favorite.

I was fortunate to be drafted by the Cubs in 1994 and 1996, and “Sarge” became one of my hitting coaches there.

My mental health is very important to me, and every day as an African-American man, I am fighting to receive the benefit of doubt, respect and trust.

When I started my professional baseball coaching career in 1998, I spent lots of time trying to do the impossible—giving 110% effort to prove to my white peers that I was a good coach. I tried to dress like them and talk like them. I found myself at times frustrated about who I was becoming.

My mental health is very important to me, and every day as an African-American man, I am fighting to receive the benefit of doubt, respect and trust.

I am an African-American man and I have learned to love who I am. Having good mental health is a really good thing and I will give my life to protect it.

Toni Morrison said, “The function, the very serious function of racism is distraction. It keeps you from doing your work. It keeps you explaining, over and over again, your reason for being. Somebody says you have no language and you spend twenty years proving that you do. Somebody says your head isn’t shaped properly so you have scientists working on the fact that it is. Somebody says you have no art, so you dredge that up. Somebody says you have no kingdoms, so you dredge that up. None of this is necessary. There will always be one more thing.”

Before racism becomes about people, it is all about power, so for me to have good mental health with regards to combating racism, I need:

  • Support and affirmation from my wife, Kelli, our daughters, Mackenzi and Mackenna
  • To remain connected as a committed and consequential change agent employed at LEAD Center For Youth
  • Interactions with people that are not of the African-American race that agrees with me as well as those with people that disagrees with me
  • A caring, compassionate and competent therapist
  • My Life Group at my church, Elizabeth Baptist Church

Is racism real or non-existent to you?

Are you an African-American baseball coach fighting racism? How do you fight it?

Are you a white coach who has helped an African-American coach fight racism? How have you helped him?

For more information, visit L.E.A.D. Center for Youth today. Also, check out our Digital Magazine.

C.J. Stewart has built a reputation as one of the leading professional hitting instructors in the country. He is a former professional baseball player in the Chicago Cubs organization and has also served as an associate scout for the Cincinnati Reds. As founder and CEO of Diamond Directors Player Development, C.J. has more than 22 years of player development experience and has built an impressive list of clients, including some of the top young prospects in baseball today. If your desire is to change your game for the better, C.J. Stewart has a proven system of development and a track record of success that can work for you.